Here I am posting a recipe the day after a
heated battle breaks out here about my new job - which apparently translated to me not working (???) at all and putting my family before my career and submitting to a "degrading religion" (please hold while I pop my birth control pill...) for an Anonymous commentor. I could sum this whole post up like this: Respect everyone. Allow everyone to make the choice that they need to make for their individual happiness. Make
this stuffing recipe (if you want, have the time or desire, etc etc). And for crying out loud, if you don't like to hear about decorating, cooking and being a wife, this blog probably isn't your best choice of reading material.
But I've never been one not to talk...ask my first grade teacher. So I'll say this: It's important to me at this point in my life to remain working in some capacity - I've already explained all of this. The field of Internet Marketing changes daily (did you know that Google changed their local search results algorithm two days ago and we're awaiting changes to the algorithm to incorporate social media even more into search engine results?) and taking 5 years completely off to raise a kid doesn't work well in that field. But that is not to say that I won't choose to stay at home fulltime at some point. Or that I won't go back to a fulltime position at some point. And I fully respect the decisions each person makes for themselves regarding working and raising a family. I love my family. I love my career. I love my alone time. I love date nights with my husband. And dammit, I love cooking a really good meal sometimes. And I think that every person - female or male - should be entitled to make the choices that are right for them without feeling the need to defend themselves to people who choose differently. I am not a feminist, I believe in treating
everyone with respect, learning from our mistakes and doing the best we can for our circumstances.
Mr. B and I make decisions daily about what is best for ourselves, our relationship and our family. I happen to be passionate about my house - I love decorating, cooking and cleaning. I love hanging out with Thomas. I love shopping with my girlfriends. I also love beating boys at beer pong, playing sports, and watching football. And Mr. B? He's a cleaning machine, the only grocery shopper in our family, a fabulous cook and the world's greatest and most involved dad. I couldn't ask for a better
partner in life - someone who appreciates me as an individual, a friend, a daughter, a sister (and sister-in-law to my favorite person in the entire world and go-to blog defender) a wife AND a mother.
But what do I know? I'm just a girl who made a choice to leave a job that wasn't fulfilling for one that challenges me daily and that I love that happens to allow me to spend two extra days a week with this baby boy whom I adore. Let's get back to stuffing, something I know about.
I jest - I know nothing about stuffing. This could be a total failure of a week. But I'm going to try
this recipe. What about you guys? Will you be making stuffing this weekend?
Now, if you'll excuse me, I need to go put on my high heels and lipstick so that I can vacuum and iron Mr. B's socks to his liking.